INVEIGLE

to obtain by deception or flattery

influence or urge by gentle urging, caressing, or flattering
SYN - blarney, cajole, coax, sweet-talk

"She had had an easy life beacuse of her ability to inveigle whatever she wanted."

"It was so obvious now that the powerful politician's wife was inveigling the man into changing his position."

"He had despised her for having inveigled the important information out of him at the bar - she was on his turf now though."